so, i moved in with my boyfriend last saturday. i was so stressed before i just left tumblr alone
my step mother was kind of ridiculous. i started getting boxes out of the garage to box some of my stuff up, and then the next day the garage key went into hiding and she put it by so that i couldnt continue to do it. I had to ask to get my stuff out of the garage.my stufff.thought that was pretty ridic. anyways, it was a palava byut ive got most of it. ive managed to leave some stuff behind.
things are going well so far, even if im realising how lazy he is. we’ve managed to share the cooking. but other than that im clearing away my things (fair enough), and hes not doing much else. he put up a shelf for me. ive done the washing, the dishwasher, kept the kitchen in a relatively nice condition. ie: no food on plates. but he just puts his finished plates with not finished food on the side. least he could do is put the food in the bin. THATS WHAT ITS THERE FOR. i briefly communicated this to him last night but i felt so rough i only hinted, for the most part.
i guess thats part of living with someone. im not putting up with it though. if it comes to it, he can do his own dishes and washing and ill do mine if he doesnt want to share household chores. im gonna see what happens once ive finally found room for all my shit.
i dont miss home. i feel less stressed on the hole. i like having someone to go home to snuggle and i have my own cat who is fucking adorable. and his cat is adorable. oh, thats something that annoys me, if Jeremy does something wrong hes MY cat, well then, if hes my cat, you can fuck off :)
but, in his defense when i needed help at the vet on sunday he did rush on a train to get to me, and in the end i managed to get back to the car just before the meter on the pay and display ran out. my bad. i appreciated it but it didn’t put the day to a good start and the day before was a little stressful. life ain’t all that bad :)
also work is improving, i just feel like my managers care about me, even though HR have to follow all these shitty rules about stuff. the office atmosphere has slowly changed and occasionally im even thankful that linda is part of the team because she does help. just not quite enough of a team member, though. think shes working on that. and really, as a part time staff member, thats a bit harder to do.
anywho. life is grand. not too much to complain about. even my headaches seem to be improving. boo yah.